My name is Bonnie Kernene and I am a true crime
blogger. My blog is at http://mylifeofcrime.wordpress.com/. I have been doing this since 2005 and I
really like what I do. When I started
out, I was just posting stories of almost any kind, and was not very focused at
all. However, that really changed within
a few months, and my focus about crime took a sharp turn.
In July 2006, 5-year-old Destiny Norton was reported missing. She was part of my community, so it affected
me. I wanted to help search but was
unable to. However, I paid close
attention to all news reports and posted on her frequently. Then I started to notice some patterns in
comments on news forums and comment boards, and I was angry. People were commenting on her appearance and
her family’s income level. I was outraged. Her family’s income should not matter. A child was missing! She turned up dead, at the hands of a
neighbor, who pled guilty and was sentenced to life without parole (Yes, I
wanted the death penalty for him, but the family agreed to this). It was this beautiful, innocent child that made
me realize that my focus should be on the victims of these horrific crimes, not
on those who commit the crimes.
It seems
like these killers, including serial killers, spree killers, sexual sadists,
etc., are glorified by the public. They
receive thousands of letters, marriage proposals, etc. But then, can these same people even
remember the victims of these monsters?
Probably not, nor do they care to.
But the victims should be the most important part of the process. We should strive for justice for them and to
keep their memories alive. We should not
be glorifying these killers or predators.
The focus should be on the victims, however, it seems like there are so
many groups that only care about the convicted, such as the ACLU, or the
anti-death penalty groups, that most of their words are about the defendants,
and they usually leave the victims out, or speak a few, insincere words about
them. I strive each and every day to
remind people to remember the victims, remember their lives. Spread their memories and their life
stories. In fact, I am writing a book
about this.
I am currently trying to
gather stories from friends and loved ones of victims, sharing memories of the
person who has been taken away so unexpectedly.
Remembering high school memories, weddings, children, trips, etc. Whatever memories they have that they want to
share.
I want to create a book that will share these loving moments with
others, so that people will remember the victims and learn about their lives.
Anyone wanting to share a memory of their friend or loved
one that was murdered is welcome to send me an email at mylifeofcrime@gmail.com
Either do your ideas of first amendment rights.
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